How to be Beautiful

We prod and we pry

We starve and we pluck

We beg on our knees

And when we look up

Not a prize to be found,

No pat on the head

Just a sweet shove to

Get back on the bed

Or into the kitchen

Or behind the screen

To watch others conform

To standards obscene

Be thin but be full

Be blonde but not fake

And dear, little girl

Do stand up straight

Like a solider or slave

To the cross we all bear

My back is breaking

Is anyone there


We learn from the start

To say “thank you” and “please”

Cross your legs tight,

Unless on your knees

Making the world

Go round and round

Pleasing the boys

Up from the ground

That’s what power is

Tying someone below 

Because when underweight

There’s nowhere to go.

Isn’t it funny

The things that we see,

The ads and the sounds

That planted deep seeds

“If you do as we say, and not as we do,

You get the cake

But can’t eat it too.”

I’m twenty five

And I have eaten the fruit

But Eve didn’t tell me

To spit after I chew.

Because the boy and the dream

The eyes and the claps

Proved empty and violent

And lead me to death

I’m wide awake

And I want to scream

“Oz is a nightmare,

It isn’t a dream!

The wizard is lying!

The white rabbit is dead!

Stop chasing the thoughts

That poison your head!

All the time and the money

And the pain I have spent

To conform to a world 

That’s broken not bent

The pooch of my tummy

The lines on my face

Are proof of my life

I will take up the space

Allotted to me

In this one precious life

No more mirrors

I want a knife.